Hitting the Brick Wall

You look in the mirror and  you don’t see yourself anymore. You see a stranger who needs help. She (or he) is a mess, they’re overweight (or maybe underweight), they look tired, bloated, dulled complexion, sad, lost, and defeated.

Sometimes it takes hitting a brick wall in the hypothetical sense in order for us to make changes. We get to a point where we just can’t take it anymore, we get sad, mad, then determined and that determination can drive us back to the person we know and love.

It’s very easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of new fads, a different way of thinking every two weeks, or the latest train of thought in someone else’s opinion of what is good for the body such as gluten-free living, Paleo dieting, raw foods diet, vegan, vegetarian, supplemental dieting, etc. etc. etc. – the storm of latest-greatest just keeps flowing until POP! You feel like you hit a brick wall. You might hit so hard that it throws you backward onto your butt leaving you staring at the blank wall, speechless. My suggestion is to thank that brick wall for stopping you in your tracks giving you time to re-assess your situation and intentions and to decide if you want to continue or to change course.

Each of us is different and that is a beautiful thing. I’ve learned in my health coach training that what works for one person doesn’t necessarily work for the next and I know by practicing it that it’s absolutely true. Step back, take a deep breath and reset your goal. When you are at a complete stop and want to make changes in your life is when you will be able to find what works for you best. A good start would be to begin eliminating processed foods and sugary snacks even if they say healthy, fit, dietary, low-fat…processed foods have high salt, sugars and chemicals which all cause inflammation throughout your entire body. Make a move to whole foods as often as possible. Another great way to start over is to let go of your past that doesn’t serve you and hold tightly to that in your life that has or still does serve you. Freedom is a clean start!

I would LOVE to help you reach your ultimate-self. It doesn’t matter how far away you are, we can work together from any distance. Want to know what foods help you best? Want to process and discard any past pain? Want to find out what lifestyle improvements fit you? Let me know why you’re fed up, what you would like to change, what is holding you back or anything else that;s on your mind; begin your change now…why wait? Email me, it’s always confidential: Dawn@initiatewellness.com

 

Don’t Go with the Low-Fat Options, Why not? Read on…

Too often I see people buying and consuming so-called low-fat foods thinking that they’re doing their body or diet a favor. The truth is low-fat foods have added sugar or other ingredients that add calories and empty calories at that. I teach my clients to opt out of falling for what seems like the wise choice of low-fat foods except when it comes to dairy since most low-fat dairy is simply fat skimmed off adding nothing to compensate.

I recently wanted to purchase mayonnaise and saw Hellman’s brand made with olive oil and thought, “wow, great”; that was until I read the label.
Hellman’s Real Mayonnaise brand has 90 cals.-10g., Total fat- 1.5g., Sat. fat-5mg, chol.-90 mg. sodium, 0 carbs/sugars (though sugar is in the ingredients list)
Hellman’s Olive Oil version- 60 cals- 6 g., total fat- 1 g, sat. fat- 5mg, chol.- 120 mg., sodium, 0, carbs/sugars (yep, in the ingredients)
Hellman’s Low-Fat version- 15 cals., 1 g. total fat- 0, sat. fat- 0, chol- 0, carbs/sugars ( you guessed it, on the list too!) a whopping 130mg. Sodium and the first ingredient is Modified Corn Starch and continue reading and you’ll find other ingredients that are difficult to say.
You can see for yourself at Hellmanns.com 

I’ve decided to buy mayonnaise with the least amount of ingredients and organic when I can find it.

This is not limited to mayonnaise, when you read labels you will find that this is true with the majority of so-called healthy low-fat choices.

The bottom line is just eat the most natural version you can find, less ingredients equals a better product and opt for organic versions before the general commercial versions and eat only sparingly; less is more.

When you make your own salad dressing from olive or nut oils with a choice of herb infused vinegar and adding your own choices of herbs versus the store-bought “low-fat’ version you know it’s fresh and complete and you consume fewer calories, less sugar, less chemicals, and less dressing overall.

Finding & Using What Inspires You

What thing helps you find motivation and inspiration? Is it a particular item? A certain aspect of nature? Does it come from support of friends or loved ones? Whatever that thing is, use it. If you don’t know what it is, take time to discover your method of inspiration and become inspired!

Never give up on yourself. Never quit.

Cravings are Messages from Your Body Telling You What it Needs

We all have cravings at one time or another and some people have cravings every day and give in to them. What they’re not paying attention to is what their body really wants so they keep foraging for something to satisfy that urge to eat. This habit grows and most often gets out of control.

Common cravings are sweet and salty foods, sugary snacks like candy, cake, other pastries, ice cream, cookies, chips, bread, pasta, French fries, batter-dipped foods, deep-fried, gooey cheesy and doughy types of food. The list can go on but these are the common things most people crave.

I have found that when I haven’t eaten many vegetables I start digging around for things like chips, bread and pasta. A typical day for me includes 5-7 and sometimes more servings of vegetables, mostly leafy or other dark greens. I love vegetables! My body loves vegetables!

I recently tried to increase my animal and vegetable protein intake to probably double what I generally eat in order to drop a few pounds. I did this for personal experience and experimentation and through advise of a fellow health coach. While I felt full longer I found that I also felt tired, slow and unfocused; a little bit in a fog. While I’m glad I tried this approach I don’t think a high protein diet is helpful for my particular body.

Back to eating more veggies… my body functions best on more vegetables and an adequate amount of proteins, both animal and vegetable; though I err on the side of vegetable proteins as I enjoy them more and feel more alive when I eat them – just as I do when I eat plenty of greens. When I eat plenty of berries, a little bit of fruit and a hefty amount of steamed or raw vegetables, I feel energized and renewed…every day.

It’s simple to learn what your cravings are telling you. You may want the help of a health coach such as myself – but never give up on your beautiful self. Make a commitment to learn what your body in particular needs, and promise yourself a healthy, happy new future!

Contact me: if you would like to work together on finding out what your cravings are telling you and to finally break that habit.

 

#11 – Strengthen My Weaknesses

New Habit #11 brings us to the first week in June; there’s no better time than to work on strengthening your weaknesses. One big weakness of mine is the regimen of doing a workout every day.  As I’ve mentioned in past posts I’m not a fan of the scheduled workout or even going to a gym, while I’m not 100% sure why, I accept my preferences and try to workout in different, more interesting ways.

One physical activity I thoroughly enjoy doing is yoga and my Kempo forms and practices but I still need to get into a habit of setting time aside at least 5 days a week and do it. In order to accomplish this is to finally just pick a time of day and make it part of my work day because after all, I am my first best client and proof that a healthy lifestyle is important not only physically on the outside but on the inside too. My second step is to determine how much time each day I will workout – my initial plan is at least half an hour – usually it ends up to be more.

I know myself well and so I know it won’t be easy for me to do but I will work toward it every day so that it will become a daily desire that brings emotional and physical balance into each day.

What is your daily physical activity? How do you motivate yourself to doing it?

If you don’t workout daily, what type of workout do you imagine yourself doing and what type of help would you want?

Your Place in the World

You have a place in the world. You subconsciously know where that is; you’ve revealed that to me several times. So you have a few hurdles to get over before reaching your destination and that’s ok, everything we do has its own course and it’s important for us to accept a particular course we’ve been destined to follow.

Accepting and following the path given to you isn’t a negative thing. Keep that thought near and dear to your heart. You are capable of everything you set your mind to. Also, if you think positively you will succeed. Negative attracts negative and positive attracts positive. When we aren’t open-minded and open to change we miss the window of opportunity.

What you must do is not a burden. It is a new and unique chance to express and experience the beauty of being alive. Experience life despite what any part of your past has dealt you. Let go of that part of your life and begin today-living life on your terms.

 

 

Change the Pain of Your Past

Trying hard to change the pain of the past is a task worth accomplishing.

The people who have hurt you, disrespected you, used you, abused you, and those that underestimate your abilities, choices and decisions in the past including just yesterday don’t deserve to win anymore. You deserve to win now. Now is your time.

Little by little you will be able to let go of that past so that it won’t haunt you anymore. You are in complete control now, don’t let them into your head; tell them loud and clear that they are not welcomed into your life today. Say it aloud each time these memories creep up on you. Tell them that they can’t come in, they can’t be part of your future because they’re toxic to you.

Tell them to leave.

 

#10 – Changing Your Thinking Can Change Your Life

My best friend Beth shared this with me several years ago and it pops into my mind often, “If you always think they way you always thought, then you’ll always get what you always got.”

This is true. So many people want things to change yet they continue to do things as they always have expecting different results. We need to be willing to make changes in order to experience the possibility that our life will be improved. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is the right thing and it’s often scary to think about how we will do it. We tend to get into our comfort zone and cannot imagine life any different but often wish for a different life. Many of us deal better with change when change is out of our control and just happens, but we eventually find that it’s not the change we were dreaming about and we continue fantasizing about the life we imagine as perfect. By doing this we often get caught up feeling that our fantasy life is in some ways real and we don’t push forward to make a reality of the changes we wish for but we still find ourselves unhappy.

Today, begin to practice making small changes in your life that will bring you to your desired destination and to your biggest dreams.  Be brave, be strong!

Enjoy the satisfaction of making changes reality and continue to follow your dreams to make them come true.

 

Don’t Do it Later; Do it Now!

We often say “I’ll do it later“ or “I’ll start tomorrow when it’s a fresh new day because today I already ‘cheated‘ ”. But what if tomorrow doesn’t come, or if tomorrow you forgot or ‘cheated’ again? Would you just keep putting it off? Don’t put off your dreams, goals or plans any longer. So what if you started out today on the wrong foot-put the right foot forward and start over as many times as it takes!

 

Eat for Healthy Teeth & Gums

We all know that brushing, flossing and regular dental check-ups help keep our teeth and gums healthy. In addition to that a healthy diet is equally important.

Maybe you already eat a diet free of sugary and carbonated drinks and sugary snacks, but did you know that milk, cereals, bread, pasta, fruits and some vegetables contain sugars and/or starches?

These starchy foods mix with your saliva causing an acid bath that eats away at tooth enamel making your teeth more susceptible to decay.

So what should we eat then? I’m glad you asked!

Fresh fruits, vegetables and nuts are better snack choices than candies, pastries, chips, soda, and other sweetened drinks and foods. While natural (whole) foods contain their natural sugars, chewing increases and flow of saliva does too which decreases acidity in the mouth and it washes away food particles. Choose apples, pears, grapes, berries, veggie sticks and mixed nuts for your snacks A good habit to adopt is to drink water during and after eating all meals to help rinse away leftover acids and food particles from the teeth.

A balanced diet of whole foods provides the entire body with much-needed vitamins and minerals, calcium rich foods such as leafy greens for teeth and bones and foods with naturally occurring calcium fluoride (which is remarkably safe).

By following these few simple suggestions you’ll benefit with healthier teeth and gums, fresher breath and you’ll get an extra bonus of less unhealthy fats stored in your body and more oxygenated blood which in turn will boost your energy level.

Eat and drink for your teeth and your health!