Candy Bars for Breakfast & a Few More for Lunch!

I recently went to the lab inside my GP’s office for the typical pre-physical blood work. My appointment was for 10am, I was allowed to drink only water and so I did just that until after my blood draw.

When I arrived, the phlebotomist was anxious and super talkative questioning why I allowed my appointment to be so late in the morning. My response to her was something to the tone of “oh, no problem, I’m fine, getting a little hungry now but staved it off with water”. Chattering away as she was about how she had to update my insurance information and that it will take her too long because computers aren’t her thing but that phlebotomy was; she touted how she was damn good at her job. She brought up the breakfast issue again adding in that she’s already had three, yes 3! candy bars so far today and that if she ate a normal breakfast like most people, her body wouldn’t know what to do with it. Hmmm, that explains her talkativeness and anxiousness!

As she prepared to stick my arm with her ‘piggy-back test-tube’ needle, chattering all the while she found the “perfect vein” and proceeded. As she chattered away, she pushed the needle through and further….my blood initially filled the tube but as she pushed through it slowed. She was pushing nearly through the other side of my vein and stated, “ooh, you’re gonna have a bruise”…followed by “gee, your blood flow is slow, you should drink more water”. My thought, ‘gee, you ought to lay off the candy bars and coffee for breakfast and this wouldn’t happen.

Upon leaving and saying goodbye, I ended with “no more candy bars for today”, to which she responded, “oh, hell, I have two more to go!”

I bruised as she had promised and my inner elbow was sore and lumpy for at least a week.

If you can relate to this woman in the least, please, let’s talk, I can help!

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maybe not so bad-looking but still, unnecessary

Focus & the Lack Of; Taking a Mental Break

Lacking focus lately, maybe a touch of AD, but I choose leave out the last D because I don’t believe I have a disorder. I have a life and I believe that being annoyingly distracted is a normal part of life; they key is not to let it last.

We might have lost focus due to taking care of other responsibilities, or through just take time out from the daily grind; sort of goofing off and doing what we please – that’s all perfectly fine. When you lose focus though, be sure you don’t become careless; keep at least a light grasp on that which is important.

We must from time to time reel ourselves in, settle down, quiet the mind and body and refocus our efforts and find direction again. Finding and following a new direction is equally important because things change every day; what worked yesterday might not necessarily work today.

Losing focus can simply be a mini mind and body vacation. When this happens, perhaps it’s your body and mind telling you it needs a break.

Give yourself that “time off”, but don’t allow it to continue indefinitely or for so long that it begins to cause more serious issues such as job loss, client loss, spousal disputes and family neglect. Take care of what you need while maintaining responsibility.

To Chop or Not to Chop…

2015-01-16 08.07.12I was surprised with this beautiful cutting board that was made by hand with rock maple – it’s so beautiful that I hate to cut on it but then again a well used cutting board is much like a well read Bible ;)

I can imagine the thousands+ of meals this is going to help me create! I good cutting board and a good knife are my favorite kitchen tools; what are yours? Share your favorite kitchen tools in the comments area.

(thank you, David, for this work of art; so very grateful)

Bucket List

Of course people have had bucket lists since the beginning of time; they might not have called it a “bucket list” but that’s what it has been called for as long as I’ve been around.

I don’t have a bucket list myself but I think I might need to start one; after all, I need to add things I want to witness people who have put me on their list doing things on my my bucket list too, a sort of payback ;) I recently learned that someone wants to hear me sing karaoke, odd? I’m not sure but it will be fun keeping their bucket list active…not that I can’t sing, I’m just a bit shy.

When I think about making a bucket list, I imagine so many things that might seem far fetched or like wishful thinking but then again, isn’t that what it’s all about, this life we live, isn’t it about setting big goals and working hard toward reaching them? If not, then what is it all about? We’re here to share, encourage, show faith, believe, love, trust, forgive, and dream.

My new small goal will be to write a bucket list and keep adding to it; my big goal is to cross off those items which I have accomplished.

Whatever is on your bucket list, don’t let go of your intentions; follow your dreams and soar.

Don’t have a bucket list yet? Why not join me in creating one? You can learn a lot about yourself in writing down you desires and dreams. Get to know your true self.

New Year Resolution or Just an Opportunity to Make Adjustments?

So many people make new year resolutions such as going on a diet, exercising more, adopting a new practice, reading more books, or getting more sleep…the list is endless. For me, I see it as time to adjust things that didn’t work in the past 12 months, using the next chunk of time (12 months) to tweak and make major and/or minor adjustments to life and to work.

I also make resolutions throughout the year when it seems right or necessary. There is no rule stating that a resolution has to be at the beginning of a new year, a new month or a new week; a resolution can be made daily – think of a resolution simply as an intention.

A major issue with resolutions is they always start with a great spark but in a short time they fizzle and we forget and make excuses. When we make a monthly, weekly or daily resolution we have a better chance of following through.

When you wake up each morning set your intentions, say them aloud and write them down or add a reminder to your smart device so you will be reminded throughout the day and week.

Resolutions/intentions are simply a tool, a mantra for you to make positive changes in your life. Start big or start small – it doesn’t matter as long as you’re moving forward and making some type of progress that suits you, do it for yourself because you are that important.

Happy, healthy, peaceful and prosperous new year to you!

Low Blood Sugar Crashes

Let’s talk about low blood sugar here. Someone in one of my coaching groups asked about it and so I thought I’d share my response.

I’ll start by saying this happens to me very often if I don’t eat throughout the day, My friend Kathy can back me up on that one as it happened to me recently while antiquing! So what are the symptoms? First you start getting a little light-headed, you can’t focus visually or mentally, then you feel like you’re going to be sick, then you get a cold sweat.…I haven’t let it go beyond that point because the next thing you’ll most likely do is pass out.

So what do you do at times like these? Many people do grab for candy; I prefer to grab for something slightly healthier if I can – I’ll grab a piece of whole grain bread, cereal, or real food as in lunch, dinner whatever the timing is. Most often this happens to me between breakfast and lunch and usually when I’m out. You’d think I’d keep a meal bar in my bag! I try, I don’t always do it though.

What does low blood sugar(hypoglycemia) mean? How can you get it without being diabetic? Simply put, if your blood sugar is too low your body reacts. There are many causes for hypoglycemia without diabetes ranging from simple hunger, to over-exercising to adrenal & pituitary gland insufficiency to liver & kidney issues, all the way up to cancer, tumors, medications and treatment of other illnesses. To know if you have true hypoglycemia, you would be tested but if you feel the symptoms as I described above and you know it’s only when you haven’t eaten, then take the steps to keep your blood sugar balanced.

1 – eat a healthy, breakfast – with protein & complex carbs
2 – keep healthy snacks at hand at all times, fruit, veggie sticks…
3 – drink water, and whole juices
4 – plan your meals ahead such as lunch and snacks
5 – know your “crash” times.

If you get low blood sugar symptoms and these tips help you then make the tips part of your routine; but if you find that they don’t quite hit the spot then it’s important for you to talk with your doctor about your symptoms and what you’ve tried in order to alleviate them so that you can be tested and/or properly diagnosed.

Take charge of your health, no one knows how you feel except you so initiate solutions, initiate wellness for your healthiest version of yourself.

Take a Steady Journey to Your Goal

When you learn the proper way to do something, you will find more understanding and have a steady journey. The path may twist and turn and climb uphill and flow down gently but it will always take you forward; trust it.

When looking toward a big goal, it’s often helpful to make small goals along the way because they’re more manageable. Small steps lead you to your destination better than a large leap; a large leap can sometimes find you falling backward shortly after landing. A steady journey helps you to find your sure path/footing along the way.

Give yourself space, kindness and forgiveness, Vow to go deep within and understand your true self and then love that person up!

The Power of Colors

Colors are a very personal preference for each of us. We all have our favorite color and for me that color is light blue…and various shades of pink…and more recently, orange. Orange?!! Where did that come from?

For the past year I’ve become attracted to oranges, not the burnt, muted nor bright neon orange shades, but the cool, bright, full oranges. First I would see an orange car, it was a cool, bright, almost creamy orange, then It would be a shirt or a phone case, another blog site I have is orange, a notebook, kitchen ware, not to forget the beautiful orange trees this time of year, etc. This week I saw a photo of an orange colonial home and I was in love with it – it just popped but it was subtle and classy. It’s difficult to describe what my eyes feel like when I see the perfect orange for me, it’s as though they are filled to the rim with love and joy and a little happy dance.

I decided to look into my new obsession with orange. After learning the what power that colors can do to us or for us I decided I like changing my favorite colors because I believe change happens for a reason. Here’s what I found orange to influence in us:

Orange represents transformation, warmth, happiness, emotional strength, it’s optimistic and uplifting; orange induces spontaneity & a positive outlook and is motivating. Orange suggests adventure & risk taking, it inspires physical confidence, competition and independence; it’s extroverted and uninhibited. Orange is known to stimulate the appetite (be careful of orange in your kitchen or wherever you dine if you’re controlling your diet!), as well as aid simulation of new ideas. This vibrant color frees the spirit of limitations-giving freedom to be ourselves and it encourages respect of self and of others. Whew! After all this positive representation, who wouldn’t love orange?

I believe things we need to push us forward come into out lives when we need them. For me, orange just might be that ‘thing’ that helps feed my spirit for growth. When something that you feel is unusual for you comes along, don’t fight it, go with it and learn from it; there’s a lesson in everything.

What is your color? What does it mean for you?

When You’re Ready, It Will Happen

We all have the desire to lose weight or eat better for better health. We all struggle too. Not one of us is alone no matter what discipline we use. Even the firm bodied, glowing fitness trainer struggles. As a nutritional and lifestyle wellness coach, I hear people tell me all the time that I’m perfect, I eat only the good things and I get a workout in every day; the truth is, I’m human, imperfect and I don’t workout nearly as often as I want to. I have the time so why don’t I do it? It’s not fun to me, I’d rather do something else, I’d rather do it with someone, I’ll do it later…these are only a few of the excuses I give myself. I most often eat only foods that are healthy, but I often eat too much; I do workout, but I don’t workout hard or regularly.

I coach people to let go of habits that don’t do them any good and to adopt good habits that make them feel renewed and re-energized. I love my work and I love my clients, every single one of them that I’ve had and I can assure you that I will love each new client down the road. I love them because they care about themselves to get better and they inspire me to share my knowledge and inspire so many more to follow their dreams and reach their goals.

One of my first clients in 2011, whom also happens to be a good friend, went through my entire 6-Month Progressive program with the desire to lose weight, limit eating sugary snacks and develop healthy eating habits overall. She will confess to you that it wasn’t and isn’t an easy thing to do; there is no simple, quick fix; it takes time, know-how and dedication. I myself was confused and disappointed for a while at the fact that the process was slow-going. Then something clicked. My client learned all the steps while working with me but the one thing that wasn’t 100% in gear was the commitment to herself. Know-how, desire and commitment are three entirely different things but together they work amazingly well. In the past five to six months my client has lost twenty-three or more pounds! That is a huge accomplishment and she hasn’t stopped, she uses what I taught her and she finds it easy to follow without craving the unhealthy snacks. Stress no longer takes control over her dietary discipline nor does she let stress eat at her. What happened when she suddenly began dropping pounds? She was ready.

Don’t give up hope, don’t throw away your dreams and goals of being healthy and fit. When you learn what it takes for your particular body and lifestyle and when you’re ready to commit, you will succeed. Commitment comes from within and there’s no right time or wrong time, it’s personally up to you to decide when it’s right.

Love yourself enough to be healthy and happy. Here’s to you and your personal journey. Want help? Write me.

In health and happiness.

Raw Tomato Sauce & Angel Hair Pasta

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I’m a huge, HUGE, fan of pasta. A few days ago I was visiting friends who grow a wide array of vegetables (and fruit/berries) and had lunch with them. Having an abundance of those tiny yellow tomatoes my friend made a raw tomato sauce and let it marinate on the counter for a few hours while we hit some of my favorite stores in the area, one being Trader Joe’s, I love that place!

When we returned, some angel hair pasta was cooked to al dente and the sauce was then poured over it in a large bowl; my first bite in and I was sold on it! It tasted fresh, robust and garlick-y and the pasta being so thin was the perfect base to carry the light sauce.

I had to make it myself and soon! I was sent home with a nice sized bag of those golden gems so the next day that’s exactly what I made and despite not following a recipe but instead going by memory I think I nailed it. The awesome thing about cooking is that you can be a little independent and it most often works if you’re truly into cooking.

Here’s what I did:

Raw Tomato Sauce

2-4 cups small cherry tomatoes cut in half lengthwise – I added a few of my own red ones too

a handful of fresh basil – rolled and sliced thin

fresh chopped garlic – I used 3 whole heads of my own grown garlic – they were small – use what you feel comfortable with

a dash of red pepper flakes

olive oil – roughly 1/2 cup, but it will vary depending on how many tomatoes you use – a good drizzle anyhow

salt & freshly ground black pepper

Mix all ingredients in a bowl, cover and let sit on counter for 3-4 hours. When ready to eat, cook pasta to al dente so the pasta will be able to absorb the oil and juices made by the tomatoes. Add drained pasta to a large serving bowl and pour tomatoes over it and gently mix well. Serve with a few scrapes of freshly grated parmesan cheese.